I wish my ideal boyfriend/ girlfriend …
我的理想对象 …
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- Filthy rich
- has hair
- is caring, nice, and considerate of me, my family, friends, and future endeavors.
- is very funny, smart and fiercely determined.
- I wish my ideal girlfriend is beautiful and smart
- was intelligent and beautiful
- was real
- will always be there for me
- 但要有鉴赏能力，要有面对生活的勇气，能够护我周全
- 她应该是风一样的女子，有着沉鱼落雁之美，有一种让人说不出的气质。
- 幽默，开朗。
- 我的理想对象人品好，皮肤白。
- 我的理想对象应该有内涵足够吸引我，我的理想对象应该爱护我并且一起提升
- 我的理想对象是会一门乐器，有才艺，自己喜欢的人。
- 我的理想对象是能带给我安全感，支持我的人。
- 我的理想对象是高瘦而且能哄我。
- 才华横溢 帅中带痞
- 有责任心，阳光
- 身高比我高，性格幽默开朗，有责任心，对我和家人要好
- 阳光，帅气，人品好，对我好
- 高冷
Discussion
美国学生对自己理想的对象更加注重于幽默，有趣；而中国的学生更加注重外貌和才华。这体现出了中美两国文化的差异，美国学生注重生活的乐趣，而中国学生受传统文化的影响，追求有才华的对象。
美国学生对于自己的理想对象大多注重外貌和性格，中国学生对自己理想对象要求的大多是能力和性格。中外两方对自己理想对象的共同点是聪明并且能够为自己考虑，理想对象是能够伴我们一生，将余生过成想象中每一天的人。
美国学生对于自己的理想对象大多注重外貌和性格，中国学生对自己理想对象要求的大多是能力和性格。中外两方对自己理想对象的共同点是聪明并且能够为自己考虑，理想对象是能够伴我们一生，将余生过成想象中每一天的人。
对于理想对象的要求美国学生和中国学生的都大同小异，无论是外表，还是能力、性格方面都差不多。但是略有不同的是美国学生对理想对象有须聪明的要求，注重对自己好，而中国学生则要求不仅要对自己好，对自己的家人也要好，要有责任心。总之，理想的对象就是未来与自己一起走下去的人，对各方面要求都挺高，所以我们更应该努力提升自己，为遇见更好的他(她)和自己而努力。
The American students responses seem to be more focused on looks or money, 3 people mentioned that their ideal significant other would be smart. It seems to me that we care more about things that shouldn’t matter too much. As for the Chinese students responses, they were more focused on character and personality. Most of the responses mentioned that their ideal significant other would be good for them. Both American and Chinese students seem to care about looks as well but the Chinese students answers seem more genuine.
Many of the American responses seemed to be focused on physical characteristics such as appearance and money rather than on the significant others characteristics. Many of the Chinese responses on the other hand seemed more sincere and looked a little deeper than just image for the most part. They were more focused on personality, and what truly matters in a person.