You have been waiting in line for ten minutes. Someone cuts the line just in front of you.

Vous faites la queue depuis dix minutes. Quelqu'un passe juste devant vous dans la file d'attente.

become upset but do not confront them

I ask them what they were thinking cutting the line and tell them to move back to the end of the line.

I don't really think it's that bad if it's only ten minutes. I wouldn't think too badly about it.

I say something loudly about how people have been waiting in line

I would be annoyed but probably ignore it.

I would be annoyed but wouldn't do anything unless I was in a rush or they had a lot of stuff.

I would just be quiet.

I would kindly ask them to leave.

I would not do anything because it is very likely that I would not notice that person cut the line.

I would not say anything if they were joining friends; however, if they were alone, I would tell them that there is a line and point to him where the end is.

I would point out that there was a line, and ask them to go to the end.

I would politely point them to the end of the line.

i would say: "excuse me, i was in the line"

I would say: "Excuse me, the line ends back there."

I would sternly express my disapproval.

I would tell them that it is not fair for them to do that.

I'd ignore him

If I were very annoyed, I would ask the person to leave. In most lines, however, I wouldn't be very annoyed.

If the person is joining either a friend or family member, it's fine. If the person is just cutting without a reason, then I will tell him to wait at the end of the line.

Tell them that they need to go to the end of the line.

Ca arrive rarement, je n'en laisse pas la possibilité (si j'ai le temps, je laisse passer les gens pressés)

Ca dépend où c'est et de la longueur de la queue, mais je pense que je ferais au moins une remarque à la personne.

ca m'énerve, mais je ne dis rien

Je fais attention si jamais la personne a pas une raison plausible; sinon je proteste.

je le lui fais remarquer

je le replace derrière moi

Je lui demande de passer derrière

je lui dis : "la queue commence derrière" en repassant devant elle.

Je lui dis clairement de se mettre derriere. Je ne supporte pas ce type de comportement.

je lui dis: " je suis devant vous" tout de suite.

Je lui dis:"excusez moi,mais il faut faire la queue".

je lui fais la remarque.

je lui fais remarquer qu' il y a une queue

je lui fais un croche-pied

je lui indique le début de la queue

je m'énerve car c'est quelquechose qui m'insupporte, je lui dis de faire la queue comme les autres

Je ne dis rien mais je n'en pense pas moins. Ca arrive tellement souvent... Si ca se reproduit trop, je commence a faire des réflexions à voix haute.

Typiquement français, je fais une commentaire monologue à haute voix.

Discussion

I
found that there were many similarities between the French responses
and the American responses. Both seemed to emphasize telling the person
to go to the back of the line, or pointing to the back of the line,
etc. There were a few people on both sides who said that they cared,
but would not care enough to say anything to this person, and some
people just did not care at all. However, I found it funny that one
person on the French side wanted to trip the person ;)

In addition, a few people on the MIT side expressed that they
would be OK letting the person cut in line if that person were joining
a group, but if the person were alone, they would definitely say
something and ask them to move to the back of the line.

I think the responses to this question vary more based on
personality, rather than cultural differences between the French and
American students. It depends whether you're usually a nice person, a
laid-back couldn't care less type, or if you're anal, strict, easily
pissed off, etc.

Salut,
Moi aussi, je trouve qu'il y a beaucoup de rassemblances entre les deux
réponses. Mais, on peut penser que les francaises parlent plus
facilement que les americaines. Cela, va bien avec le commentaire
général de que les francaises se plaindrent beaucoup. C'est aussi
interessant le fait que presque tous les americaines qui vont parler le
font de un manière polie. Je suis d'accord que le fait le plus
important est ta peronalité, mais elle est vraiment influencié par la
culture. Je suis sure que en autres cultures un peu plus loin les
resultats seraient très differentes.

I
get the impression that the students at Polytechnique would respond
more than the students at MIT, as in saying something to the person who
cuts the line or doing something about the situation. I do agree that
culture affects one's personality to a certain extent. In this case, I
can't really point out a certain difference between the French and
American responses. Roberto is right in saying that in other cultures,
people may respond differently. For example in Indonesia where I come
from, if something like this happens people wouldn't hesitate to
actually push the other person out of the line. The concept of personal
space is less prevalent in Indonesia. People really guard their
position when they are standing in line and they want to fill the space
as much as they can with more people. So if you create some empty space
in front of you, other people may well take it if possible. I don't
find this phenomenon here in the US because I think people have much
respect on one's personal space. I guess my conclusion on this cutting
in line scenario is that the Americans and the French have similar
concept respecting people's space.

One thing I found really interesting though is the last
response from Polytechnique. Is it really the case that in France,
people would deliver a monologue when someone cuts into the line? I
found it rather amusing =)

I
think in general, americans have a more relaxed attitude toward things.
They might become angry or annoyed, but they don't see creating an
argument as being worth the effort. On the other hand, you will see
people who are very loud about their opinions in any situation. For
example, I was walking in a mall and the woman walking in front of me
was large so I had a hard time going around. When I passed her, I
accidently bumped into her slightly. I apologized but I don't think she
heard me because afterwards, I could hear her trying to insult me by
saying that my sneakers were stupid (they were purple. haha.) etc. I
was momentarily annoyed at her but I didn't say anything because
getting into a petty fight definately was not worth the effort. I'm not
going to do anything because of what one stranger said. In effect,
person A might not respond to person B complaining (in monologue) about
how person A cut the line. Would the french feel obligated to move in
that situation?

Wow,
I don't know if I really have anything to add to this discussion. It
seems as though all the bases have been covered. Hmmm.... Well, I also
noticed that the reponses from the MIT students and the Polytechnicians
seemed very similar with a slight bias on the MIT side to do nothing. I
think that Josephine has a good point about personal space. Americans
tend to have a very large comfort zone, ie the area around them that
they see as their own personal space. I wonder if the MIT students
relative reluctance to do anything stems from the possibility that
cutting in line is a violation of that personal space, and thus happens
infrequently. As with most infrequent, and uncomfortable, events we are
not immediately aware of what to do about it, and thus do nothing.

Je
pense qu'il est difficile de généraliser nos propos à l'ensemble de la
société française. Personnellement, j'ai vécu des situations très
différentes : par exemple, il m'est arrivé de voir une personne passer
devant d'autres dans une file d'attente sans que personne ne dise rien
car dans ce cas précis, il était inutile de s'adresser à la personne en
question... on en aurait tiré que des problèmes, de longues
discussions, inutiles perte de temps...

Pour moi cette question relève plus de l'ordre de l'éducation que d'une caractéristique culturelle.

Pour revenir à l'histoire du monologue, c'est vrai que j'ai déjà
assisté à de telles situations! Mais je dirais que c'est là une méthode
bien efficace car en parlant à voix haute, toute la file d'attente est
au courant et vous apporte son soutient psychologique! Souvent cela est
plus efficace, peut-être moins civilisé comme méthode mais certainement
très française!